Jennifer Lopez‘s relationship with backup dancer Casper Smart is fraught with rumors and innuendo. If we had a dime for every tabloid story or online news source that reported that La Lopez was set to walk down the aisle with her much-younger (he’s 25, she’ll be 43 next month) and tattooed boy toy, we’d be filthy rich. Lopez took it upon herself to give fans the J. Lowdown via her official website. She quoted the lyrics to her biggest hit single and shot down the rumors that she and Smart are swapping vows.

J. Lo posted: “Rumors!!! Don’t be fooled by the rocks that I got. No engagement!” She paired the short note and lyrical hook from ‘Jenny From the Block’ with an amazing, drool-inducing photo of her in a ’60s-inspired white mini, showing off her to-die-for gams.

End of story, right? It’s coming straight from the source, and given Lopez’s propensity for wearing big, expensive pieces of jewelry, if she wears a rock, assume it’s an accessory that goes with her shoes and everything else she is wearing, not because she is set to wed for the fourth time.

Lopez and husband/baby daddy Marc Anthony are still in the middle of finalizing their amicable divorce, so Lopez likely would have to wait a hot minute before she could wed Smart. It appears as though the diva is taking things slow and in turn being ‘Smart’ about her relationship. She’s not rushing into anything, least of all marriage.

So all of you ‘American Idol‘ fans speculating whether or not Lopez will be splitting from the show to tie the knot? Calm the heck down and bookmark Lopez’s website. The news will come directly from her.