We have all heard Taylor Swift's hit, "We Are Never Ever Getting Back Together." Breakup songs like this one spark something in all of us, because we can relate. But, what are some deal breakers that make us say we are never, ever, ever getting back together?

Break ups happen everyday, and we have all been through one, but each one that happens is unique. We all have a story of what went wrong, who was the bad guy, and why we will never get into that relationship again. There are some crazy stories out their, and even though they are all different we all can agree on a list of things that will make us shut out Swift's hit song.

Here is a list of the top ten reasons to say goodbye. This list shows some of the best reasons to never, ever get back together.

1. Abuse

Abuse is a horrible thing. It should never be tolerated, you don't love someone if you will hurt them physically or emotionally.

2. Cheating 

No one wants to be cheated on and once it has happened, how can you trust someone ever again?

3. Hidden Kids 

Getting to know someone before you reveal you have children is understandable. Hiding the fact that you have offspring after more than a few months, is not a match made in heaven.

4. Friends, Family, and Exes 

This is a two parter. One, if your significant other can't get along with your family or friends you probably need to walk away. Two, if their crazy friends or exes are always around you can't grow as a happy, healthy couple.

5. No Money, No Job, No Goals

If you are with someone that can't pay their way and doesn't plan on going anywhere, they will probably bring you down. Why become some one's care giver instead of just their lover?

6. Can't Commit 

If you want to move in together, get married, or have kids you need someone that wants the same things. Why waste time in a relationship that will end with you two headed down different paths? Sure, have fun but don't expect more than what they say they will give.

7. Hygiene and Bad Habits 

You can't change a person, so don't try. If your mate smells bad, never cleans, parties all the time, or any other habits you don't like, get out now. They aren't going to transform into a different person over night. Find someone you don't need to give a makeover.

8. Hidden Felonies or Sketchy Pasts 

We all carry secrets or baggage into a relationship. When the secret you are hiding is that you once served five years for murder of a girl/boyfriend, the relationship will hit a very rough patch.

9. Ego Maniacs or Serial Liars 

It is tough to date someone when they are dating themselves. It is like you are the "other" man or woman in a lifetime commitment. Most of these people are horrible about lying, too. A liar is a deal breaker because there cannot be any trust in the relationship.

10. Jealous and Controlling 

We all get a little jealous from time to time, but there is a line that can get crossed. When you cross that line you enter into a land of the crazy. No one wants to be controlled or constantly questioned about where you were, who you were with, or what were you doing.  Having separate lives and trust are very important to healthy love affairs.

If you find yourself in one of these situations, you can always get out. Once you have shut the door on that relationship you can sing along with Taylor.